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Say where you are and that you are starting slowly. "I am in Cardiff, it has been a long time, and I would like an easy conversation" is a complete opening. Writing a profile is the rest of the page. One recent photo of your face is plenty. Photos that get a reply is what to leave out.
Keep the first meeting optional. A flirt can live in the messages for a while. If you do want to meet, how long before you meet is the unhurried version, and meeting safely is the public place. You do not owe a stranger a faster pace because you think you have lost time.
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